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Sorry, You Coveted

The news and gossip sites have been filled lately with side pieces seeking their 15 minutes of fame.

Riddle me this?

When did it become acceptable to be the mistress? When did we start offering the mistress more empathy than the wife?

Yeah, I made a comment when Tiger's harem was found out about, "She had to know".
I mean come on . . . what?. . .15 women and she never smelled the fishiness on him?

I felt she choose to ignore the obvious. Come on ladies, admit it . . we will ignore seeing the obvious faults in our relationships when we got love in our eyes.

But, then the porn star had the nerve . . . the 'don't my twat mean something' audacity to be on television with her 'I hate men' lawyer, and demand an apology.


She deserves an apology like I need another voice talking in my head (wish they stop).
I digress.
They done set the women's rights movement back 10 years

Don't get it twisted homegirl, you are nothing more than a piece on the side. Do not expect someone to feel sympathy for your behind. You are a grown woman (making grown woman movies) you knew what you were getting into. And get over the fact he 'cheated' on you with other women . . . STUPID HE WAS CHEATING ON HIS WIFE WITH YOU. . . what made you think you be special.

Then we have a side piece posing (in a shirt and with stuff animals) in magazines and telling the media what was wrong with the wife.


What's wrong with her is she the bigger person and didn't show up at your house to whip your *ss after she took a golf club . . .er . . bat. . . to her husband.

Sorry, that was wrong to write, violence is NEVER the answer (unless you messed with one of my children then bunk that I am taking a . . .darn . . I digress . . it's those voices again).

Here is my opinion, I think a woman that chooses to be a man's sidepiece may suffer from low self-esteem. Why else would you choose to love someone who does not plan on being with you freely.
And if you choose to take this type of relationship then live with the consequence of your actions and your broken heart (I live with mine and there is never a wife).

The Bible says . . . "thou shalt not covet they neighbor's husband"

So, ladies please step out of the limelight and back into the dim bedroom from where you belong.


Razor Lip said…
"chooses to be a man's sidepiece may suffer from low self-esteem"

Ok, adultery is morally incorrect, but why you hatin on sex kittens?

You don't have to have low self esteem to have sex with a married partner, just low moral standards in a moment of lustful temptation...oooh; I got to go take a cold shower I am... :))
@ Razor Lip . .Okay I stand corrected . . not! If you love yourself wouldn't you want to be the one and only why would you settle for someone's loser.
Sheliza said…
Well said Sharon!!!
Well that was a very well presented and thought out rant, I agree with your sentiments., but really I belive these women are just trying to get their fifteen (or about 5 by now), minutes of fame
@ Sheliza . . thanks

@Introspective Goddess . . . I know everyone one is seeking the limelight. But, really who/why would you want attention as the other woman and not something better.
Like those video vixens . .I do not want to be famous for sucking a rappers ****.
τreciä said…
You got a point there... co-sign!
miss_me said…
I couldn't have said that better myself. I was amazed at how these women (for lack of better words) were getting special treatment from the media. If they were as smart as they thought they were the would have gotten Tiger's money while they were with him. Always trying to capitalize on negativity. Don't they know they will always be viewed as the other woman---the husband never leaves his wife!....smh
MsKnowitAll said…
I read this back when you posted it but I shied away from a comment because I am sensitive to this issue. I was once the other woman and perhaps not insecure but definitely immature.

I don't know when the script flipped and the mistress has higher standing than the wife or the husband they were/are sleeping with... but I will say this, men cheat and get away with it because we allow it. I made a vow to myself after my complicated arrangement that I deserved to be loved openly. So I agree with you, they must suffer from low self esteem, whether they are fully aware of it or not...